Are You Too Self-Centered?

someone told me yesterday, rather bluntly, that i was "self-centered"...

that certainly got me disturbed, and reasonably worried too, 'cos i hated to know i was that way and not actually know it, especially if it were true (the secret hidden personality trait that even i didn't know about)..

so i took an online test and got these results:

Ego-in-Check Chick:

You know how to do your fair share of giving and taking, talking and listening. Not one to overextend, you've learned that maintaining sensible boundaries is key when it comes to extending yourself. In the process, you avoid the pressure to put yourself second or third and easily tune into other people's emotions in ways the egomaniac can't. "You were taught early on that your needs were just as important as those of the people around you," says Pearson. As a result, you're a caring, reliable but non-doormat-y friend (and girlfriend). People are attracted to you because they know you won't demand their unflinching attention or be made to feel guilty by your generosity.

ya, that sounds a bit more like me.. my lovely sister was even more encouraging. she came right up behind me a minute ago and told me that she didn't think i was self-centered too and she agreed with the results.. she's sweet.. :)

i dunno, maybe sometimes, i just have to be more careful at dealing with certain people, especially the ones who are more sensitive.. i guess.. and maybe sometimes, what i do and say can appear rather imposing on other people's views and ideas..

ok, must be open.. O P E N!!!

this Hidden Personality Evaluation thing i found along the way was even more fun..